Humble and Forgiving

Why is it hard to forgive others? Usually because we believe that 

they are 90%  to blame for the problem, that I am not as bad as they are. 

So I start to carry the load of other people's actions. 

If my ego is too hurt, I will have the sense of correction, of justice:

 'I know I am right', 'That is not fair'. 

But if I start to forgive from the heart, sincerely, then this kind of feeling 

and attitude begins to dissolve. I remain humble and this forgiveness will 

bring me closer to others. 

Then I do not carry regrets or anger, I just let go and remain light.